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If you and your partner come from different religious backgrounds, you may wonder how to incorporate your faiths into your wedding ceremony. It’s important to examine both religions and their traditions to incorporate them into your day to make it feel special for both of you. This may seem challenging at first, but we have some tips to help you craft the perfect interfaith wedding vows to take some stress off planning them.

When it comes to wedding vows, you can explore a few options. There are more traditional wedding vows that have a templated structure, or you can completely personalize your interfaith vows with your own messages. Whatever you decide, we are here to help you curate the best vows for your ceremony.

What Goes Into an Interfaith Ceremony?

Interfaith weddings are a great way to have an authentic ceremony that honors both you and your partner. They give guests the opportunity to learn about new religions and feel more engaged. You can ensure both faiths are represented in several ways. 

For example, you can have an officiant with an interfaith wedding experience, have family members from each side do a reading or prayer, curate a wedding program that provides details of each tradition or light a unity candle as a nondenominational commitment. Interfaith wedding vows are also an integral part of the ceremony, and we are here to share everything you need to know about writing your own.

What Should be Included in Interfaith Vows?

Writing interfaith vows may seem daunting, but here are some things to keep in mind when deciding how to share your vows on your wedding day.

Remember Your Intentions

No matter the religion, vows are a way to share your commitment and promises to your partner. Your promises to each other and what the day and your relationship mean to you should remain front and center. Remembering this will ensure your vows are meaningful and sincere.

Decide if You Want to Mention God/Religious Figures

When coming up with your vows, you and your partner can decide if you would like to mention God or go with a more general, nondenominational message that leaves religious figures out altogether. If you or your partner is non-religious, this may be a good option for you. 

Feel Free to Personalize

Because interfaith weddings are already less traditional, you have more room to customize your wedding vows. Your officiant with experience in interfaith weddings may have templates for you to use, or you and your partner can curate vows that include both your faiths and what specific promises you want to make with each other. 

Your vows are your opportunity to share the intentions and focus for your relationship moving forward with your friends and family. You can take your vows as a time to tell stories, talk about your faiths, and describe your vision for your future together to make them authentic to you.

Book Your Interfaith Wedding at Our Beautiful New Jersey Outdoor Wedding Venue

At Windows on the Water, we have hosted many couples and their guests at our 86-acre outdoor, lakeside wedding venue. Our professional, dedicated, and experienced team of wedding planners will help you make your dream wedding come to life, no matter your vision. We want your wedding to be perfectly suited for you and your guests, and we intend to assist you every step of the way so you can have the perfect day. To speak to one of our team members, please fill out our contact form or call us at (609) 208-9475.